"I was able to finally stand up and say, 'I don't want to get married.' At all. I said that out loud. I said it to my family. I said it to my friends. I said it to anybody who asked. It's never been a dream of mine," Rhimes, 45, told Winfery in an interview.
The TV mogul said the expectation for women to get married is similar to the expectation to have children.
Winfrey, 61, said she too did not want marriage despite longtime boyfriend Stedman Graham proposing.
"The moment he asked me to marry him, I was like 'Oh, God! Now I actually have to get married?' But what I realized is, I don't want to be married. Because I could not have the life that I created for myself. I couldn't do it."
Rhimes said it was freeing to "say it out loud.
