The 42-year-old musician married the singer-and-actress in 2009 after a year of dating.
"The weirdest thing is that I would end up in that relationship but it was escaping the pain I felt from losing a person I had loved dearly. And here was this very nice, kind person who lived on this other coast where the sun was shining and things were different.
"In a way, it was like an elixir. I almost felt like all that difference helped me get out of myself and shed who I thought I was, so I could get down into the depths of really knowing myself," Ryan told Vanity Fair magazine.
"There's nothing for me to say about anything I went through outside of my art that would be helpful in a way I would be comfortable with.
"For me, the best thing you can do as a man in loving someone is to do your best, go on that walk, and at the end of that walk be as much of a gentleman as you were in the beginning.
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