Known to the world as Kasturba, wife of a man the world venerated as a prophet of peace, for Kastur the child bride who married the boy next door, Mohandas was self righteous and overbearing husband, says a new book "The Secret Diary of Kasturba", an imaginary chronicle of the life of Kasturba by Neelima Dalmia Adhar.
Historical facts form the backdrop of this book but there was "no secret diary" maintained by Kasturba", says Adhar.
As her diary traverses through the years in Porbandar, opposition from the Modh Bania community to Gandhi's plans to go abroad for studies much against the community's opposition to such ventures, his work in South Africa, Kastur writes of the horror that she was subjected to by Mohandas when she was told to clean not only own chamber pots every day but also extend the service to other residents whose pots had not been tended to or cleaned properly.
A bigger shock was yet to come. After she gave birth to their fourth child, Devdas, Mohandas told her that she will have to sleep in a separate bedroom.
"We shall no longer be man and wife," he apparently told Kasturba. She had understood that as a faithful Hindu wife, she would have to blindly follow in the footsteps of her husband, no matter how much it violated her sensibilities.
Gandhi was an intolerant father to Harilal, his wayword son, driven to debauchery; Kasturba paid the price for her son's unending misery, the book claims.
The book, published by Tranquebar Press, tries to tell the world what it meant to Kasturba to be wife of Mahatma Gandhi.
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