Second, when suddenly the security blanket that they had was pulled off with the passing away of their husbands, they were staring into darkness and uncertainty. So, taking up the reigns of the company was almost a survival strategy. Anu Aga, speaking at IESE Business School in Spain some years back, recalled: “I became the CEO by default. There were two (other) reasons that undermined my sense of well-being. A year after I took over, there was a downturn in the Indian economy and from being a very successful company, our performance started deteriorating. Our share price, which had gone over Rs 400 (around 10 dollars) plunged to Rs 37 (less than a dollar). The second reason was that a little over a year after my husband’s death, my 25-year-old son died in a car accident. It was a difficult time, but as I struggled with the turmoil, I realised I had a choice of either feeling helpless and wallowing in self-pity, allowing my sense of inadequacy to grow, or to hold my self together and take charge of my life.”