Couples who communicate likelier to have happy marriage

Image
ANI London
Last Updated : Oct 21 2014 | 1:50 PM IST

A new study has suggested that communication and compromise can be a key to happy marriage.

Sarah Thompson, a family solicitor with Slater and Gordon, which commissioned the research, said that what's clear from her meetings with clients, who have been married for at least 10 years, is that marriage can be hard work, the Daily Express reported.

Thompson added that when she speaks to them about the reasons their relationship has ended, it's often for the same reasons, problems like, communicating and not being able to compromise.

Thompson continued that sadly, despite the best intentions in the world, not every marriage will last forever, but as this research has shown, communication and compromise can be the key to a happy marriage, but they are also the attributes that can help resolve a relationship that is over in the best possible way for all parties involved.

Some of the other recommendations were reinforcing the importance of keeping things light, "have a good sense of humour," "keep laughing" and "never go to sleep on an argument."

There were some unexpected pieces of advice too, like, "don't get married," "don't let the in-laws interfere" and "don't have unrealistic expectations of changing someone to suit yourself."

A satisfying sex life was only 18th on a list of 20 top tips to a better relationship trailing behind patience, honesty and respect.

*Subscribe to Business Standard digital and get complimentary access to The New York Times

Smart Quarterly

₹900

3 Months

₹300/Month

SAVE 25%

Smart Essential

₹2,700

1 Year

₹225/Month

SAVE 46%
*Complimentary New York Times access for the 2nd year will be given after 12 months

Super Saver

₹3,900

2 Years

₹162/Month

Subscribe

Renews automatically, cancel anytime

Here’s what’s included in our digital subscription plans

Exclusive premium stories online

  • Over 30 premium stories daily, handpicked by our editors

Complimentary Access to The New York Times

  • News, Games, Cooking, Audio, Wirecutter & The Athletic

Business Standard Epaper

  • Digital replica of our daily newspaper — with options to read, save, and share

Curated Newsletters

  • Insights on markets, finance, politics, tech, and more delivered to your inbox

Market Analysis & Investment Insights

  • In-depth market analysis & insights with access to The Smart Investor

Archives

  • Repository of articles and publications dating back to 1997

Ad-free Reading

  • Uninterrupted reading experience with no advertisements

Seamless Access Across All Devices

  • Access Business Standard across devices — mobile, tablet, or PC, via web or app

More From This Section

First Published: Oct 21 2014 | 1:38 PM IST

Next Story