"You know, every parent brags on their daughters or their sons. If your mom and dad don't brag on you, you know you got problems. But, man, my daughters are something, and they just surprise and enchant and impress me more and more every single day as they grow up," Obama told reporters at his final news conference of his presidency.
"And so these days, when we talk, we talk as parent to child, but also we learn from them," he said.
"They were disappointed. They paid attention to what their mom said during the campaign and believed it because it's consistent with what we've tried to teach them in our household, and what I've tried to model as a father with their mom, and what we've asked them to expect from future boyfriends or spouses," he said.
"But what we've also tried to teach them is resilience, and we've tried to teach them hope, and that the only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world. So you get knocked down, you get up, brush yourself off, and you get back to work. That tended to be their attitude," he said.
"And, in that, too, I think their mother's influence shows," he said amidst laughter.
"But both of them have grown up in an environment where I think they could not help but be patriotic, to love this country deeply, to see that it's flawed but see that they have responsibilities to fix it," he said.
They need to be active citizens, and they have to be in a position to talk to their friends and their teachers and their future coworkers in ways that try to shed some light as opposed to just generate a lot of sound and fury, he added.
"But if you're engaged and you're involved, then there are a lot more good people than bad in this country, and there's a core decency to this country, and that they got to be a part of lifting that up," he said.
Apart from spending time with his daughters, Obama's
priorities this year includes writing, to be quite a little bit.
"Well, let me be absolutely clear. I did not mean that I was going to be running for anything anytime soon," Obama said when asked about if he is exploring the possibility of a come back and entering the political arena again.
"It's important for me to take some time to process this amazing experience that we've gone through; to make sure that my wife, with whom I will be celebrating a 25th anniversary this year, is willing to re-up and put up with me for a little bit longer," Obama said.
"I think it is important for Democrats or progressives who feel that they came out on the wrong side of this election to be able to distinguish between the normal back-and-forth, ebb and flow of policy -- are we going to raise taxes or are we going to lower taxes; are we going to expand this program or eliminate this programme; how concerned are we about air pollution or climate change," he said.
"There will be a back-and-forth in Congress around those issues, and you guys will report on all that," he said, adding that but there is difference between that normal functioning of politics and certain issues or certain moments where he thinks America's core values may be at stake.
"I put in that category, if I saw systematic discrimination being ratified in some fashion. I'd put in that category, explicit or functional obstacles to people being able to vote, to exercise their franchise. I'd put in that category, institutional efforts to silence dissent or the press," he said.
"The notion that we would just arbitrarily, or because of politics, punish those kids when they didn't do anything wrong themselves I think would be something that would merit me speaking out. It doesn't mean that I would get on the ballot anywhere," he said.
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